This time, the consultation consultation is from my daughter who is in trouble with parents living away.What is Mamushi's love advice (photo / Shinji Masakawa)
An elderly parents living together.Even though they are still fine, they are not worried as a child.The mother who declared "I will not cook at all anymore" and my father who started struggling with dishes that had never been done before.Mamushi proposes a realistic solution to a 57 -year -old daughter who is sandwiched between the two who are a little passing by.(Listle, Souichiro Ishihara) [Image] Poison Viper Santo's words given to the worries of a woman who gets angry with her "husband who can't say anything to her mother -in -law"
◆ This worries: I'm doing the winter Olympics in Beijing in Beijing, "My mother does not home."It's great to get a medal, but in the first half of the tournament, the players who couldn't get it were greatly impressed.I would like to give a lot of applause to Sara Takanashi, a ski jump and Yuzuru Hanyu of figure skating.I really did it.This time, we talked about parents in their 80s sent by a 57 -year -old office worker."The 80 -year -old mother and the 85 -year -old father lived alone. My mother declared" I wouldn't cook anymore anymore. "However, after the declaration, I no longer had to brew tea instead of brewing tea. So my father, who was unrelated to cooking, read cookbooks and struggled every day. My mother was.It's nice that my father has been able to make a new competition, but my mother has a lot of food and leaves a lot of meals made by my father. My father cares very much and contacts me.I'm. I ate my father's dishes many times, but I made it according to the recipe, so it was delicious.However, my father lamented that he would not be able to recognize what he made so hard. It seems that cooking is gradually becoming a burden, and I have to hate my mother. My mother is a mother, a little more.It's good to say thank you, but it's just about how hard you have been. You can understand your mother's feelings and your father's feelings.Is it good? "As a daughter you would like to get both words, but the cause of the collision is obviously your dad.As you get older, your food will inevitably become thinner.Dad who tries to forcibly eat things that he doesn't need is not good.It's not a strong rice type where Yamabushi does a heap of rice at the temple, "Eat, eat,".I think it's great to be struggling to wake up to a dish that I had never done.I couldn't say that I could do it.However, "Eat without leaving it because I made my best, and thank you more, thank you more."I understand the desire to be recognized, but I have to think about the convenience and feelings of the other person.Even if you are a mother every time, if you take a blessing attitude every time, you will gradually feel like you're going to do it.Moreover, I felt a burden without permission and was disgusted.It seems like it's a vicious circle or a vicious circle.Well, dads are cute to call you and spill complaints.First of all, instead of your mother, you should do plenty of home, saying, "I have my dad do this, my mother is happy."If your father is just home, your mother will sneak, so don't forget to say, "It's really hard until now."My dad is crazy, so I want a mother with a thin meal to eat it.Serve four or five kinds of side dishes little by little, and try to put out a buffet format in a buffet format, or use a lunch box for children to devise a serving.If so, even moms should be easy to touch.Of course, it takes time, but my mother thanks to me, "I will do this so far," and I naturally say, "This boiled dish is quite good."If your dad says, "Can you do that kind of troublesome?"In the first place, my dad doesn't even ask her mother, "What do you want to eat today?"It's a bad habit of our generation, but especially if you're a couple, you often don't listen or say the most important things.Suddenly, it's not "Eat this today", but if you have a conversation, "Well, then boil the fish", the conversation during the meal should be removed.Anyway, it's best to be fine.In the case of an elderly couple, complaining of the other person can be stress -relieving.You should be a cushion in good condition.Even if you're just fighting, you'll actually get along well.Don't be too serious, and let the poison viper want to enjoy soothing and enjoying it, please let us know your worries, troubles, and what you want to consult.* In the future article, the poison viper consults!I will give you advice.Please note that we cannot answer the contents of the consultation and all.◆ Poison Viper Sansa -san Born in Tokyo in 1936 (born in Shinagawa, raised in Asakusa).Actor / talent.A visiting professor at Shotoku University.Graduated from Nihon University Faculty of Arts Film Department.He has been active in television and movies as an actor in "Ikichi Ishii", his real name, including the members of "Ultraman" and "Ultra Seven".In 1968, when he was carrying a cushion at "Laughing Pot," he was renamed his current stage name with the advice of Danshi Tachikawa.TBS Radio's "Music Present", which has been a personality since October 1969, is currently being broadcast at 10:00 on the last Saturday of "Saturday Wide Radio TOKYO Knights".Even at the age of 85, he is still active in radio, television, lectures, and lectures at university.At the end of last year, a fairy tale "Santa Claus, who was not good to come", which has been created and continues to talk on the radio, was released as a picture book (Picture, Yasushi Tsukamoto, published by Nicomomi).Movie "I don't have the funds for retirement!], Shows a famous performance as a stubborn jiri of the former police officer.YouTube "Mum Channel [Official]" is also very popular with various guests every time!New videos are being delivered on the 1st, 11th and 21st of each month.The official YouTube "Mum Channel" is the official YouTube, which is released on the 1st, 11th, and 21st.Every time, the guests related to Mamushi and the related guests are exciting with a pleasant story.Click the image to move the YouTube page.Please take a look ◆ Interview / sentence / Souichiro Ishihara (Ishihara, Ichirou) Isshira / Souicho was born in Mie Prefecture in 1963.columnist.He has authored many books such as "Adult Training Course" and "Adult Test".The latest issue is "[Super practical] how to express and convey the favorability up."This series explores what mature power for the elderly is through the words of viper.